Leo Buscaglia
once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of
the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four
year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who
had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy
went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just
sat there. When his mother asked him what he had said to the
neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him
cry."
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Teacher Debbie Moon's first graders were discussing a picture of
a family. One little boy in the picture had a different color hair
than the other family members. One child suggested that he was
adopted and a little girl said, "I know all about adoptions
because I was adopted." "What does it mean to be
adopted?" asked another child. "It means," said the
girl, "that you grew in your mommy's heart instead of her
tummy."
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A four year old was at the pediatrician for a check up. As the
doctor looked down her ears with an otoscope, he asked, "Do you
think I'll find Big Bird in here?" The little girl stayed
silent. Next, the doctor took a tongue depressor and looked down her
throat. He asked, "Do you think I'll find the Cookie Monster
down there" Again, the little girl was silent. Then the doctor
put a stethoscope to her chest. As he listened to her heart beat, he
asked, "Do you think I'll hear Barney in there?" "Oh,
no!" the little girl replied. "Jesus is in my heart.
Barney's on my underpants."
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As I was driving home from work one day, I stopped to watch a
local Little League baseball game that was being played in a park
near my home. As I sat down behind the bench on the first-base line,
I asked one of the boys what the score was. "We're behind 14 to
nothing," he answered with a smile. "Really," I said.
"I have to say you don't look very discouraged."
"Discouraged?" the boy asked with a puzzled look on his
face. "Why should we be discouraged? We haven't been up to bat
yet?"
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Whenever I'm disappointed with my spot in life, I stop and think
about little Jamie Scott. Jamie was trying out for a part in a
school play. His mother told me that he'd set his heart on being in
it, though she feared he would not be chosen. On the day the parts
were awarded, I went with her to collect him after school. Jamie
rushed up to her, eyes shining with pride and excitement.
"Guess what Mom," he shouted, and then said those words
that will remain a lesson to me: "I've been chosen to clap and
cheer."
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A lesson in "heart" is my little 10 year old daughter,
Sarah, who was born with a muscle missing in her foot and wears a
brace all the time. She came home one beautiful spring day to tell
me she had competed in "field day" - that's where they
have lots of races and other competitive events. Because of her leg
support, my mind raced as I tried to think of encouragement for my
Sarah, things I could say to her about not letting this get her
down, but before I could get a word out, she said "Daddy, I won
two of the races!" I couldn't believe it! And then Sarah said,
"I had an advantage." Ah. I knew it. I thought she must
have been given a head start... some kind of physical advantage. But
again, before I could say anything, she said, "Daddy, I didn't
get a head start... My advantage was I had to try harder!"
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An Eye Witness Account from New York City, on a cold day in
December: A little boy about 10 years old was standing before a shoe
store on the roadway, barefooted, peering through the window, and
shivering with cold. A lady approached the boy and said, "My
little fellow, why are you looking so earnestly in that
window?" "I was asking God to give me a pair of
shoes," was the boy's reply. The lady took him by the hand and
went into the store and asked the clerk to get half a dozen pairs of
socks for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of
water and a towel. He quickly brought them to her. She took the
little fellow to the back part of the store and, removing her
gloves, knelt down, washed his little feet, and dried them with a
towel. By this time the clerk had returned with the socks.. Placing
a pair upon the boy's feet, she purchased him a pair of shoes. She
tied up the remaining pairs of socks and gave them to him. She
patted him on the head and said, "No doubt, my little fellow,
you feel more comfortable now?" As she turned to go, the
astonished lad caught her by the hand, and looking up in her face,
with tears in his eyes, answered the question with these words:
"Are you God's Wife?"
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We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go,
we take a little of each other everywhere.